Moralizing is the act of giving unsolicited advice or expressing strong opinions about right and wrong in a self-righteous manner. It differs from sharing opinions in tone, intent, and delivery. While sharing opinions contributes to open dialogue, moralizing often leads to defensiveness and resentment. To handle a moralizer, practice peaceful assertiveness, maintain a compassionate mindset, and avoid internalizing their judgments. Respond respectfully, and don’t be afraid to use humor to diffuse tension. Remember, you don’t have to engage in every argument or follow unsolicited advice.
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Stop Taking Offense: It’s Ruining Your Relationships
Have you ever felt a sting of offense after someone’s comment? That initial hurt can quickly spiral into anger, resentment, and even a distorted view of the situation. But what […]
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Understanding Your Conflict Style
Conflict is an inevitable aspect of human interaction. Whether it’s a minor disagreement or a major dispute, conflicts arise in various forms throughout our lives. How we handle these conflicts […]
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5 Common Communication Obstacles and How They Hinder Connection
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Embrace Open-Mindedness and Transform Your Life
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3 Communication Mistakes Killing Your Relationships
Interpersonal conflicts and dramas can escalate very quickly, where a single word or action can lead to a full-blown argument. At Peacemaking 101, we aim to help people learn how […]
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Beyond Enemies: The Importance of Holistic Peacemaking
Historically, peacemaking has been understood as “bringing about peace, especially by reconciling adversaries.” We think this definition presents a limited view of what true peacemaking entails. In today’s complex world, […]
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Perceptual Differences: Why We See Things Differently
Ever argue with your friend about something that happened but swear you remember it totally differently? That’s where perceptual differences come in! It’s basically a fancy way of saying we […]
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How to Solve Conflicts with Peaceful Assertiveness
Are you tired of confrontations that go nowhere? Do you wish to navigate conflicts with grace and confidence? Welcome to the world of peaceful assertiveness, where conflicts become opportunities for […]
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Three Principles of Respectful Communication
In the heat of a disagreement, it is easy to get caught up in defending your position. But for truly productive conflict resolution, there is a bigger picture to consider […]